Updates about my kids for friends and family who don't see them a lot and also some random thoughts.
Monday, November 30, 2015
The Katie Chronicles, Julia Sugarbaker, Jr. Edition
We remodeled our house about four years ago and we did a good bit of research on the various updates beforehand. Even though we "cut the cord" last year, we have kept up an HGTV habit that formed during that reno year and we like to ooo and ahh (and eeww) over the various remodeling projects they feature. So Katie and I were watching House Hunters Renovation Collection and a couple asked their real estate agent to find them a house to buy that was even older than the 1970s-era house they had already toured. I talk to the TV as if the people can hear me so I said something to the effect of, "I'd think twice about wanting to go a lot older." Katie said, "Why, Mommy?" and I said, "Older homes have character but also lots of problems like wiring and plumbing that has to be replaced. It gets expensive to renovate at the level." Katie, right year old, my third grade child, said, "Yes, I agree. You want a place that looks older but is actually newer. It should just have that rustic *look*."
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Refugees, Compassion, and Fear
Like most people, in the past few weeks, I’ve
been giving some thought to my opinions about admitting Syrian refugees into the U.S. It strikes me first that compassion and
helping those in desperate situations is a spiritual issue and Christians have been
given some guidance on this. Quite a
bit, actually:
"For I was hungry and you gave me something to
eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you
invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked
after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me. Then the righteous will
answer him, "Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and
give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or
needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to
visit you?" The King will reply, "Truly I tell you, whatever you
did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for
me."
(Matthew 25: 35 - 40)
If anyone has material possessions and
sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of
God be in that person? Little children, let us not love
in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
(1 John 3:17-18)
There are others
but I'll stop there. Helping refugees is such an important imperative in
Christianity that 5 of the 9 NGOs helping with refugee resettlement in the U.S.
are Christian. But isn’t it normal to feel fear about letting people into America from a country that has Muslim extremists in it? I think that’s pretty normal, especially after
what happened in Paris last week. But not giving in to fear is a spiritual issue,
too. The most common phrase in the Bible in both the Old and New Testament is
"have no fear" or "do not be afraid." We are called
repeatedly to do the work of love and justice without fear. That doesn’t
mean, of course, that we abandon common sense precautions, but more about those
in a minute.
Helping refugees is
not only the Christian thing to do, but it’s also pretty patriotic. It’s so important to the American experience
that it’s written on the Statue of Liberty: “"Give me your tired, your
poor/Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,/The wretched refuse of your
teeming shore./Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,/I lift my lamp
beside the golden door!"
But what about
jobs? Won’t they hurt our economy, which is still struggling in so many
places? It turns out the answer is
no. Economists have found that refugees,
even when they come in large numbers, have either a net neutral or net positive
effect on the economy. They know this from studying the impact of 125,000
refugees from Cuba coming to Florida within a few months in 1980 (80,000
to Miami alone). There was no impact on unemployment. Yes, they got jobs, but more
people mean more people buying things, which creates more jobs, and more people
paying taxes. Plus, refugees and immigrants tend to start more small
businesses.
I’ve also learned a
lot about the refugee process this week and it strikes me that a terrorist who
wanted to come to do harm in the U.S. wouldn't be the sharpest tool in the box
if he choose the refugee process as a way to enter. Refugees don't get to
choose where they are sent. They are assigned to a country and could easily get
sent to Lebanon or Egypt instead of America. Our refugee vetting process takes up to 2 years so
even if a potential terrorist did get sent to the U.S., he'd be waiting a long time. (There is a
way to enter the U.S. that does deserve scrutiny and that's the number of
countries whose citizens we allow to come in without visas for short stays. That
is probably more porous than it should be).
But we already
have, as a few Facebook posts have pointed out, homeless veterans and
children. What about them? Since when did compassion become
something we have to dole out only to certain groups? Compassion is not a finite resource. It’s a false choice to say we must choose
between two deserving groups. We can
help both and we should.
I think we
are right to allow refugees from Syria to come to the U.S. In fact, I think it’s long overdue. If terrorists cause us to separate ourselves from the best parts of ourselves, our empathy for others and willingness to help those in need, their victory is more profound than any bombing could ever be.